17th July 2017
James is thinking about my suggestion that the kids and I stay in this house. We’ve agreed that I am going to investigate whether I can get him released from our current mortgage, then we can continue the conversation. I think he may have realised that going away at the end of term was not a good idea and that even though he’s not living with us, his children should still be his priority. I may have laboured this point a bit. Whether it had a bearing on anything or not, the outcome is that he will think about us staying here. He was certainly more open to the suggestion as it was something that he wouldn’t even consider before. I have a meeting with a mortgage broker tomorrow.